Saturday, September 15, 2012

Y complicate life?

I really don't understand why does everybody make things so complicated. I mean if you just pay a little attention to things you'll see they're way easier than you thought they'd be. If you wanna talk to someone, call them...text them, talk to them...don't hold things inside, tell everyone how you feel about them before it's too late. If you love someone, tell him or her...who knows maybe that someone is waiting for you to make the first move and in the end it's not like you have something to lose. If you can;t stand someone's behavior, try to tell them the easy way so you won't hurt their feelings, we're all humans....we make mistakes even if we don't mean to do them on purpose. Don't be mad at people you love for stupid reasons...you're hurting yourself and the ones you love by acting like a spoiled brat. If you feel alone, call your best friend...don't sit there with that feeling killing you, try to change it or let someone help you change it. I'm sick of everyone's drama. I hate to admit it but I used to be a bit of a drama queen too. I hated when things didn't go like I had planed to but then I realized that life's not supposed to be calculated.
* Do you sabotage your life on purpose?  You think to yourself,  if this crisis occurs, how could I possibly continue on with my plans?  Then subconsciously, you help the crisis along.  You make it happen.  Are you manufacturing an excuse to not move forward?  Are you looking for a way out, so you don’t have to deal with the fact that you aren’t where or who you want to be in life?
Fear can make us do strange things and self sabotaging is one of them.
If you think you are self sabotaging your life, have a deep look at your fears, your self esteem and feelings of self worth and work out why you are making your life more difficult.  Work out what it is you are afraid of and then work on moving through and conquering that fear.* 
We complicate our lives by our own decisions. Always remember: IF YOU NEVER TRY, YOU'LL NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU'RE WORTH. I know that you might be scared making a decision because you fear it may be the wrong one but what if it's the right thing to do? You have to learn to take life the easy way: if it works, great :) if it doesn't: fuck it, try another time. If Plan A doesn't work, the alphabet has still 25 other letters left. Think positive :D
And remember to let go. The past is gone. The future hasn't come yet. Enjoy today!
Forget and forgive...if someone hurt you in the past, let it go...forget it, and give second chances...we all deserve them. Learn how to forgive people. You'll feel better when you're not carrying anger and hate wherever you are :)
So yeah...why complicate life? :) Peace.

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