Saturday, September 1, 2012


So today I saw a video that talked about girls hating each-other and it really got me thinking…why do we hate each-other that much?
Sometimes I think it’s not our fault. We are taught to be compared to each-other…I mean since we were kids people would compare us to other kids, we’ve always had the idea of competition like who’s the best ,who’s the most popular kid and stuff like that. We get hurt
because we get compared with other girls and when we find out that we’re not as good as them or as pretty as them we start to hate them. I mean we all know that ‘’perfect girl’’ that has everything, that pretty, smart, rich, popular, cute girl that has everything…amazing friends, good-looking boyfriend and we get jealous because we’re not that girl. And what do we do?! WE HATE HER….We just wanna see her drowned in pain and see her hurt because we don’t want to see someone that perfect, we’re scared of that kind of perfection.
Girls always judge other girls…I mean you’re at a club and you see this hot girl dancing and you’re like ‘’that bitch…look at the way she’s dancing’’ or another girl may be like ‘’she’s hot BUT her dress sucks’’. I mean when it’s the last time you heard a girl say something nice about another girl without adding a BUT?? For example: us girls see another pretty girl in the street and we’re like ‘’I like what she’s wearing BUT her shoes don’t match the outfit’’ or when we see another girl talking to our crush we’re like ‘’I like her hair BUT her body sucks’’ . Why can’t we stop criticizing each-other?? Or why can’t we just stop comparing ourselves to other girls? I mean yes, she may be beautiful,hot,pretty,rich but that doesn’t mean she’s perfect. She may be just as insecure as you are. And then don’t let people compare you with others. You’re unique the way you are. Go out there and show the world that you don’t have to be better than other girls….you don’t have to be the best…you are perfect this way. There’s a reason why you are like this and not like that….I mean you’re special. Yes it’s true…I know people will never stop criticizing…they’ll always talk dirt and will try to compare you with others, they’ll always be like ‘’ I like this girl more than this one’’ or ‘’this girl’s hotter than this one’’ but who cares??? Let them talk…that’s what they do best…They talk dirt about others but stop listening to them. If you’d just stop listening to others you could finally feel good with yourself. There’s nothing better you can give the world but YOURSELF. You’re unique and there’s only one like you… So stop trying to be somebody else when you are awesome the way you are. So why can’t we girls just like each-other and get along and..just be friends…real friends…? :))

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